@Kaylan, I don’t believe in homophobia. I believe children should be raised by two parents. Studies have proven that the gender of the parents does not influence children’s well-being. I do not think it is “odd” that men would want to be fathers – gay or straight. I don’t think that straight men who adopt children do so because they want to abuse they child, these men just want to be fathers. A man’s relationship with his child is completely different than his relationship with women.

@ The Krigsman, enough with the women hate. jeez. Now I can agree that when it comes to divorce and child custody, women normally win out, and that is unfair to men. I have to disagree with you about women demanding and creating the system.

Men are not safe in their marriages. Men are not safe having children in their marriages. A man knows he will lose it all should his wife (whom can do no wrong) or he (who is always to blame) want a divorce. And that’s the way women like it.

Men are not stupid. They know damn well what they are up against – anti-male divorce courts, anti-father family courts, the anti-male domestic violence industry, misandry, bigotry, sexism. They know they will be reduced to spending just a few hours every other weekend with their children, no hope of ever having a real father/child relationship and paying between a third and two thirds of their income to child/mommy support for the privilege of being treated like a criminal.

Women benefit from divorce- children, house, $$$. This is the system women wanted -No, DEMANDED- and now will not give up for anything. Is it really any wonder that single men who would want to become fathers would take steps to avoid that which is the single most pernicious threat to themselves and the father/child relationship – A Wife.

Cause and effect. Expect more of the same.

The Krigsman.